this is 2020.

it may not be what you imagined,

you may be called on to become a zoom aficionado,

the embrace with your father you once imagined after his speech, may be replaced by a digital cheers,

the stress of your guests being able to log-in may alter your state of “being present”

but the laughter, the love, the commitment and the passion are still there.

so fill your heart with what’s important

& be done with all the rest.